Sunday, 12 August 2012

I say NO!

Learn to say NO

to client when necessary

When I started my design journey I would say YES to every job that I came across. I’m not sure if it was because of the money or just the excitement of starting a new project but I would take it without realizing it may not be worth it.

After some time and some bad experiences I learned that I couldn’t always say YES, it doesn’t fit my way of life. I first started in printing industry so I could do what I love and saying YES to every job may bring lots of things that I don’t love as much.

I got myself into a few projects where I wasn’t the designer anymore; instead I was just taking orders from a client and doing as he pleased. I realized this happens a lot on the design industry, where clients who don’t have any knowledge of design but have this idea in mind of what the final product should look like. So they hire a designer to execute their ideas instead of using their expertise, which is what they are actually paying for.

I would be lying if I said I had never been a client’s puppet before. I got through it just so I could get paid but at the end was it worth it? Well, not even a minute of it. It’s stressful to do something I know isn’t best for the client; it’s shameful to work on something that I’m not proud to say I did. Thanks to all that I learned to say NO!


Monday, 12 March 2012

迷路了//

已经失业了接近3个月了..
在家过着无所事事的日子...
每个人都在问我,最近在搞什么...
其实,我连自己在搞什么也不清楚.
只知道,每天都过着一样的生活..

等太阳升起,然后日落;
等月亮升起,然后月落,

我的前面一片浓雾,
而我,就站在孤独的直路,
天很暗很暗...
周围很冷....

没有别人的辅助,
我就这样一直往前走....

走着走着....
好像迷路了...

Friday, 25 November 2011

低谷

也許前世稷了不少孽,所以今世命格犯賤,

還是覺得自己是幸福的,因為知足。

我有對我很好的家人,雖然有時候他們啰嗦,一直嘮叨,
但是他們的出發點都是爲了我好,
所以有時候覺得很煩,
很無奈,很想去反駁,
但是爲了減少爭執,我往往都會選擇沉默。


我的生活...
一天比一點墮落..
感覺上身邊的人都在玩弄我..

誒?不對...錯了...
還是我在玩弄這身邊的人?
別人常告訴我,你不去惹人,人家怎麼會惹你?

其實,說這句話的人太天真的...
世界上有千千種種的鳥人,
即使你不去惹他們,也會被惹。

家庭生活不順利,就會牽扯到工作,
然後慢慢的就拖累到自己的感情生活,
到最後混入沒有白天黑夜的朋友,
結局就是變成廢人一個。

有時候吃飯吃到一半,
會突然慌神,然後的停頓很久,
腦海裏面就開始有很多問號...

女朋友爲什麽要騙我,
家人為甚會成天黑鬼臉,
朋友爲什麽都那麼蛇,
爲什麽突然給老板吊...

停頓很久....
很久....
飯涼了,慢慢的不想去吃...

我是個很有問題的人...
很久以前我不喜歡有自己的朋友..
更不需要要女朋友...
我就喜歡自己一個人,在房間自己寫東西,
亂亂畫東西...

我不喜歡熱鬧的場...
我喜歡自己一個人,安靜的做自己的事情..

因為我知道,當我開始說話了..
全世界都會討厭我...
真的...

我說話了,就會得罪很多人...
不知道現在是否還會有人對我真心...

我要求不多..
只要不要把我當水魚就好...
因為我是真的把你們當朋友..

今生你要娶的人,就是前世葬你的人.

从前有个书生,和未婚妻约好在某年某月某日结婚。

到那一天,未婚妻却嫁给了别人。

书生受此打击,一病不起。

这时,路过一游方僧人,从怀里摸出一面镜子叫书生看……

书生看到茫茫大海,一名遇害的女子一丝不挂地躺在海滩上

路过一人,看一眼,摇摇头,走了。

又路过一人,将衣服脱下,给女尸盖上,

走了。再路过一人,过去,挖个坑,小心翼翼把尸体掩埋了。

僧人解释道,那具海滩上的女尸,就是你未婚妻的前世。你是第二个路过的人,

曾给过他一件衣服。她今生和你相恋,只为还你一个情。

但是她最终要报答一生一世的人,

是最后那个把她掩埋的人,那人就是他现在的丈夫。